Are you writing your own vows for your wedding, but experiencing writers block or do not know how or where to begin?

Here are 3 clear and concise takeaways for writing wedding vows, using the Rule of 3 approach:

1. Speak from the Heart, Not a Script.
Use your own words—don’t worry about sounding poetic or perfect. Say what you truly feel about your partner and what they mean to you.

2. Make a Few Meaningful Promises.
Include 2–3 specific vows that matter to your relationship. They can be serious ("I promise to always support your dreams") or playful ("I promise to share the remote").

3. Keep It Short and Genuine.
Aim for about 1–2 minutes. Long enough to be heartfelt, short enough to stay powerful. Practice it out loud to hear how it flows.

Writing Faith-Focused Wedding Vows? Use the Rule of 3 (Religious Edition)

If your faith is at the center of your relationship, your vows can be a powerful expression of both your love and your commitment to God. Here’s how to keep them meaningful and grounded using the Rule of 3.

1. Acknowledge God’s Role in Your Union
Start by recognizing that your marriage is a gift from God. Express gratitude for His guidance and for bringing you together. This sets a sacred tone for the promises to follow.

2. Make Faith-Centered Promises
Your vows are a covenant before God. Include promises that reflect your spiritual values—like praying together, honoring one another, or serving God as a team. You might even include a favorite scripture or biblical principle that guides your relationship.

3. Speak with Reverence and Love
Use words that are sincere and respectful, grounded in scripture if you choose. Your tone should reflect the sacredness of the moment and your desire to build a marriage rooted in faith, grace, and unconditional love.

Writing Funny Wedding Vows? Use the Rule of 3 (Humorous Edition)

If your love story includes a lot of laughter, don’t be afraid to bring that into your vows. Humor adds personality and joy to your ceremony—and it still counts as deeply meaningful. Here’s how to keep it funny and heartfelt using the Rule of 3.

1. Be Real, Be Funny, Be You
Skip the formality if it’s not your style. Share something that’ll make your partner laugh—like how they won you over with bad dance moves or your mutual obsession with snacks. Humor works best when it’s true to your relationship. Don’t be afraid to crack a joke or two—especially if humor is a big part of your relationship. Think inside jokes, quirks, or that one time you tried to assemble IKEA furniture together.

2. Mix Sweet with Silly
Balance genuine love with playful promises. “I vow to love you forever... even when you steal the covers” hits both heartfelt and hilarious. Add in a few light-hearted promises:
“I vow to always kill the spiders.”
“I promise to be your personal Uber driver—forever.”
Balance the laughs with a moment or two of real love to keep it grounded.

3. Keep It Short, But Make It Count
Aim for a minute or two, not a stand-up routine. Enough time to land a few jokes, melt a few hearts, and leave your guests grinning. Practice it out loud so your timing and tone feel natural.

Writing Wedding Vows? Use the Rule of 3 (Non-Traditional Edition)

If you're ditching tradition and doing vows your way, this is for you. The Rule of 3 helps break down big ideas into three simple takeaways—perfect for couples who want vows that are heartfelt, real, and 100% them.

1. Forget the Rules—Tell Your Story
There’s no formula here. Share what makes your love unique—Talk about your love—how you met, the weird way you communicate, or the little things that make your connection one of a kind. Think more “honest conversation,” less “romantic movie script.”

2. Promise What Matters to You
Skip the clichés. Make real, personal promises that reflect your values and vibe—Say what you truly want to promise. It doesn’t have to be traditional—it just has to be real. Maybe it’s “I vow to keep life weird with you,” or “to always be your emergency contact.”

3. Keep It Honest, Raw, and You
Use your own voice. Whether that’s poetic, quirky, chill, or a mix of all three, your vows should feel like something only you would say—not a Pinterest post.. That’s what makes them unforgettable.

Alway remember, most officiants can include both your own vows along with the traditional vows. Just keep your communicaiton open with your officant and let them know your wishes.